So smart blogger NecoleBitchie.com recently interviewed TLC's Chilli, Rozonda Thomas last week. She talked to the ex girl grouper about her new single, wanting a husband, her love for Usher, and the man she let get away. And i do agree Necole, Chilli does not age. Her skin is flawless!
The dialog between the two ladies is below. Get Audio and more pictures here!
Necole- Girl first I gotta ask, what kind of regimen do you use on your skin, you have the fountain of youth!
Chilli- Thank you! Honestly, you know girl “black don’t crack”. I just drink a lot of water, I eat organic foods. I don’t drink. I don’t smoke. You know I have to give my mom credit for the good genes and I just take really good care of my skin.
Necole- You still look like you are 21, 23. Everyone’s aging and you are still like “heeeeeeeeeeeeeeey”!
Chilli- [laughs] Thank you!
Necole- Okay so we just listened to your new record Dumb Dumb Dumb, when should we expect that single to be released?
Chilli- Well right now radio is getting it. We are sending it out to everybody and just hoping it blows up. I love that record and working with CriStyle, Oh my God she’s amazing. She’s so talented and just so sweet. This record means so much to me on so many different levels. I wouldn’t say it’s a male bashing song but I am a woman and it’s coming from a woman’s point of view. Who can’t relate to being in a relationship where the person mess up or it’s just a dumb move. A lot of us can high five on that.
Necole- So what is your definition of a Dumb Dumb Dumb?
Chilli- Well you know, it’s not just for females dealing with dumb guys. There are some great guys out there whos been in some relationships with girls who did not appreciate them because they are too nice. That is the craziest thing I ever heard. The DUMBIEST thing I ever heard.
Necole- You know we like bad guys!
Chilli- I don’t! I don’t like bad guys at all! But you know, you just be in a relationship and guys don’t communicate well, or in my opinion you are the complete package and they mess up anyway and end up with a retard. It’s like, that makes them a dummy.
Necole- So have you had anyone that you let get away? Like he was a good guy and you didn’t realize it until the relationship was over?
Chilli- This is gonna be big of me to say this. I have never ever said this in my whole life. Ever. But yea, I did let one good guy get away and that was Marlon Wayans.
Necole- Oh Wow!
Chilli- See no one knew! And it’s funny because I met Marlon when I was 20, when I had just got in TLC and you remember that movie “Mo Money”? I remember we were on tour with Hammer and we had went to the movies and I saw him in that movie. I was like “Oh My God he is soooo cute!!!” So we went out that night and I ended up seeing him that night. And I met him for the first time and we just clicked instantly
Necole- And he is soo funny..
Chilli- Girl, he is the funniest man in the world. And the thing that was so wonderful about him is that we were friends but he really did love me. Like if I had to look back and say “who really loved and adored me” ..it was him. And so my dumb butt, I can really put this on me now. I was caught up in the “bad guy” and how it’s just this challenge. I like to call them projects. We think we can just fix and tweak but as you get older you become a lot smarter and realize people are who they are. They don’t change. And the older they get the more they become that true person so little things that you didn’t see early on, you really are gonna see it later. But ya know, we are friends even til this day. He has two kids with his girl and all that but I’m like maaaaaaaaaaaannn
Necole- That could have been you!!
Chilli- Yes, yes! So he’s the one I let get away.
Necole- Well you know everybody wants to know.. They’ve seen you parlaying around with Floyd [Mayweather] and these stories about him spending thousands of dollars on some shoes..
Chilli- That’s hilarious! Floyd and I are really good friends. I like Floyd. You know it’s funny because you see Floyd on television with all the money and all that kind’ve stuff. I get on him and say “stop doing that and go to a hospital and pay a families bills and he actually thought it was a great idea so he’s really a great guy! That is just an image that he puts out there but the Floyd outside of that. He’s just amazing. Like he has one of the biggest hearts I’ve ever seen. I honestly have to say that. So he’s just someone that I like hanging out with. He’s the type of person that when we are all hanging out together, he’d buy stuff for everybody. He’s just real giving like that so of course if he’s buying me shoes, then it’s like “they are together”. But no, I’m not dating him. I do want a date. I want a boyfriend. I want a husband
Necole- I know that’s right!
Chilli- I do. I want a husband but I’m very picky. My standards are very very very high.
Necole- What are you looking for in a potential husband?
Chilli- Girl, Marlon! [laughs] Oh god! He’s so awesome. I messed up. I blew that. I just wasn’t there at the time you know. Just someone who loves God and who is very respectful of himself. If that relationship with the Lord is there then he’s already gonna just not do certain things and will naturally do other things and that’s the part that’s hard for me to find. Like I meet these guys and they may have some stuff but they don’t have everything. And the things they don’t have are major enough for me to just be like “no, I can’t”. And girl I don’t waste time, I can tell by the second date. It’s like peace. Like “baby bye” and I won’t talk to him again.
Necole- I’m like that too. I have like a two date rule.
Chilli- Stay that way! You know what, at the end of the day majority of people in the world are unhappy in relationships. If you and I are by ourselves, it makes sense for us to get lonely every now and then because no one is there but for the most part, if we are with someone and still lonely, that’s a problem.
Necole- And you know what, I have a lot of friends that are with someone and they are still lonely.
Chilli- Miserable! They are miserable because it’s just human nature that we feel like we have to have somebody in our lives and I don’t believe that God meant for any of us to be alone, but I know he didn’t mean for us to be with the wrong person and deal with crazy stuff all the time. No way, I’m not doing it!
Necole- I’m gonna need you to write a relationship column on NecoleBitchie.com as a guest blogger!
Chilli- I would love to[laughs]!
Necole- But for real, I put your record up today with the jacked up picture (as they say) (laughs) I just needed a visual to go along with the song at the moment and it was just perfect when I googled images. But yea, it’s a really hot record, I know it’s gonna be on the charts and most people were like “Yea, I’d bump this in my ride”.
Chilli- Thank you! I appreciate that so much. You know it’s funny to me that people refuse to let the Chilli and Usher thing go.
Necole- I mean because everyone was rooting for the two of you. You were like the cutest couple ever!
Chilli- Well you know what’s funny. I will say this and I know it’s gonna be everywhere. Lord, Tameka gonna be trying to fight people. But honestly I will say, although Marlon is the one that got away, Usher is the one that I truly did love. Like that was truly my first adult love. I love him very much and I will always love him. I don’t know how you love someone that deeply and just stop loving them. I’m not in love with him anymore but I can’t say that I don’t love him anymore. And of course I do want him to be happy and all but me and him had what I never had in any of my other relationships, and that was chemistry. Even in that picture that you have up. Any picture that you see with the two of us, you see it. It’s just there! I could be standing next to him til this day and people will be like “Wow”. It’s not that you are wondering if we are back together again, it’s just that we look like we just go together.
Chilli- So unfortunately we couldn’t get all the other stuff right and I think a lot of it had to do with timing. For me I had just come out of an off and on 10 year relationship with Dallas and as a female to female you understand that when you get out of those crazy relationships you kind’ve get this “I’m strong and I’m not gonna let anyone in”
Necole- Yes, let me break this wall down.
Chilli- You can be a little bit much and I think at the time I was kind’ve like that and he was a lot younger and so he was immature in ways. I was too so I won’t put it all on him like that but to me I felt like if the timing was different, it would have been a different story. So yea, I will always love him.
Necole- What should we expect from you in the future?
Chilli- I really want to do big things with kids. My goal is to write a book one day on parenting. You know it’s funny but my son goes to a Private Christian Academy and alot of them are like “wow, it’s amazing to see you up here all the time and you are so involved. You’re a celebrity and blah blah blah” and I’m like “wow”. It feels good to hear that but at the same time I’m like “that’s jacked up”. That’s my son! I’m supposed to be involved in his life. I’m supposed to cook him dinner. I’m supposed to make him lunch. I’m supposed to just love him to pieces like I do and to me when you don’t give those things to kids that is when they grow up and they are getting in too trouble and going to jail and all that type of stuff… And not knowing how to be in relationships because it starts at home. I’m just gonna try to help honey!
Necole- Trying to do what you can right? So do you have a release date for your album yet?
Chilli- I’m actually still recording. I’m pretty much done but if someone calls and says you have to hear this record and it’s “hot”, I can’t turn it down.
Necole- And have you titled the album yet?
Chilli- I have something in mind. I’m working on some things. I’m a perfectionist. Even with working with TLC, we always had these cool titles and I still have that same mentality. I’m from the old school so I want people to buy my album and feel like it was worth every penny.
The Juice ReportER (would you drink the juice of a red hot chilli pepper? get it? 3 meanings in one. Ha! okay...whatever.)